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Topic Name: what/how to ... ?? ...
Message Name: Is this worth your time?
Date Posted: 04/19/2000
In Reply To: A woman in my office married young, so she always wondered what it's like to be with another man. She feels that she can still attract men even now (she's late 30s, early 40s). I can see what a dish she was in her younger days, by her clothing and demeanor. Because she's in management and I want to join management, what do you think I should do: A) Be the good guy, by impressing her with my work ethic and business knowledge/savvy B) Be a social-pimp, by introducing her to my numerous buddies, who are both younger and can give her lots of needed "spice" in her life C) Be a stud, by socialing with her after work and making her feel sexy and attractive D) Play up her fantasies, by being totally submissive to the "boss", in effect turning her into a "Dom"
Message: I really don't want to answer this because it sounds like a load of BS. But hey I have just a few minutes to waste. If you're serious than you should be fired. Pimping, sleeping, or whatever your contemplating doing to get to the top are not in your best interests. If you can not advance on your work ethic alone (sounds like you don't have much) than you really shouldn't plan on staying within the current company much longer. If you can't go to your office or wherever you go every day and do something progressively more challenging and depend upon your work experience and intellect (doesn't sound like there's much of that either) to advance you further perhaps you're in the wrong line of work, company or maybe it's just bad Karma. You sound like an egotistical wimp. Turn your boss into a Dom. eh? What makes you think that you're what she's seeking? Are you the ultimate male adonis? Apparently not, you were willing to let her take control. What you are, my little man is a poor excuse for humanity. Ciao!

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