| Topic Name: |
Romance in the Air |
| Message Name: |
Wow..your hostility shows |
| Date Posted: |
09/26/2000 |
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You sound like you are concerned that your husband might be having a good time at work. This is a problem for you?
I think that?s pretty inconsiderate. The man is fortunate enough to have a job where there is a fun friendly atmosphere and you don?t like it?
I think you should be thankful that he has such a job, when so many others get up every morning and dread going into work.
Now, if you are worried that he might be having a bit of fun with another woman (and I am sure you are) that?s a different story.
If that?s the case, the problem is yours.
If your relationship is strong then you should be secure and have no problem with it. If not, only you can change it.
But as for the boss changing his ways, that?s pretty selfish. You want everybody else to be miserable, because you don't want your husband to have any fun.
I think you need to re-examine the situation to see what the real issue is here
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| Message: |
I am astonished at your hostile attack! Thats your take on my husbands situation at work and thats fine, but for you to label me as "having a problem" with him having fun...well, you dont even know me!
I have no problem with him having fun at work...he likes his job and he works hard. I have a problem with the activities that include nearly naked co-workers and alcohol. If you have trouble understanding that, then I can only hope you arent married!
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