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to change or not to change... |
| Message Name: |
tread lightly, but carry your stick |
| Date Posted: |
03/02/2006 |
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i'm being a better job (more $ and higher position) with a competitorm firm. but i really like my current firm. is it a good idea to use this offer as leverage against your current firm in the aim of getting them to match the offer? does anyone have any experience as to whether this works or is it a bad idea? |
| Message: |
Tough call.
There are lots of opinions on how to proceed, and I would look seriously at some career management books and or articles for more guidance than this board will provide. I'd also talk to some senior mentors who have jumped to another firm in the industry.
The problem lies in the danger of alienating your current employer, and raising questions about your loyalty. If you are happy where you are, then you are richer than you can possibly imagine in this modern work environment.
On the other hand, you want a reasonable wage, and need new challenges, so if your current employer can't offer those in a reasonable time frame, then it is good to look around.
There are plenty of way to frame the negotiation for pay, but barring a disertation on that topic on this board, I'd reference some better career management sources. You'll be glad you were VERY well prepared for such a discussion. Remember, it is all about how you frame your position.
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