| Topic Name: |
Stay or go? |
| Message Name: |
Thanks |
| Date Posted: |
06/10/2004 |
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It sounds like you need to figure out what you'd gain and lose from this move. It looks like you would be gaining a new job that you'd enjoy and an hour and a half in extra free time but you'd be losing some things as well. You'd be making less money overall, need to find childcare (and it can be really hard and stressful to find someone you feel you can trust, let alone the expense), and your fianc?? would be pulling herself away from her life which is important to her. Have you tried speaking to her about it? Hopefully the two of you can work it out together. Best of luck. |
| Message: |
Yes, there's a lot to consider. She has told me that it's my choice and she'll go wherever I think is best. That makes me feel extra guilty.
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