
Vault's Office Romance Survey, 2003

As Valentine's Day draws near, employees are looking for love in the nearby cubicle, according to a recent survey by Vault. In its survey of professionals nationwide conducted in late January, Vault found that 47% of workers have participated in an office romance and an additional 19% would be willing to do so if the opportunity arose.
Vault's 2003 Office Romance Survey is based on responses from over 1,000 professionals at companies nationwide. The following are results from the survey.

1) What is your position?
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Position
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Percentage
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Entry-level
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29%
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Executive
|
10%
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HR Manager
|
2%
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Manager
|
21%
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Mid-level
|
38%
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2) Does your company have an office policy?
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Romance Policy
|
Percentage
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Yes
|
13%
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No
|
51%
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I don't know
|
36%
|

3) Under which of the following circumstances do you find office romance to be unacceptable?
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Unacceptable Office Romances
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Percentage
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employee dating a boss
|
21%
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Employee dating an intern
|
11%
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Employee dating someone in HR
|
6%
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Employee dating upper management
|
15%
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Manager dating a subordinate
|
21%
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Office romances are always acceptable
|
11%
|
Office romances are never acceptable
|
7%
|
Same-sex dating
|
8%
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4) Which industry do you believe has the highest rate of office romance?
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Industry Perceptions
|
Percentage
|
Advertising/Marketing
|
19%
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Consulting
|
12%
|
Finance
|
8%
|
Law
|
10%
|
Media/Entertainment
|
39%
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Other
|
7%
|
Technology/Internet
|
5%
|

5) Have you ever been involved in an office romance?
|
Percentage
|
Yes
|
47%
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No
|
34%
|
No..but I'd be willing if the opportunity arose
|
19%
|

6) Have you ever dated your boss or another superior?
|
Percentage
|
Yes
|
11%
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No Way!
|
58%
|
No..but I'd be willing
|
31%
|

7) If you have dated a superior, who initiated the relationship?
|
Percentage
|
Me
|
12%
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Mutual
|
57%
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My boss/Superior
|
31%
|

8) Have you ever dated a subordinate?
|
Percentage
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Yes
|
16%
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No Way!
|
54%
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No..but I'd be willing
|
30%
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9) If you have dated a subordinate, who initiated the relationship?
|
Percentage
|
Me
|
25%
|
Mutual
|
51%
|
My subordinate
|
24%
|

10) What were the repercussions of your office romance?
|
Percentage
|
I lost credibility and my reputation suffered
|
5%
|
It interfered with my work
|
17%
|
No repercussions
|
55%
|
One or both of us were terminated
|
3%
|
We established a long term relationship
|
19%
|
We were reprimanded by management
|
1%
|

11) What would you do if you found out about an office romance?
|
Percentage
|
Discuss the situation with the parties involved
|
27%
|
Monitor to ensure work was not compromised
|
48%
|
Nothing
|
16%
|
Other
|
3%
|
Parties sign consensual relationship agreement
|
4%
|
Terminate one or both of the parties involved
|
2%
|

12) What methods have led you to discover an office romance?
|
Percentage
|
Caught in the act
|
11%
|
Coworker ratted on them
|
13%
|
Heard a rumor about it
|
30%
|
I've never discovered an office romance
|
12%
|
Monitor emails and/or phones
|
2%
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Other
|
2%
|
They were open about it
|
26%
|
Told by a manager
|
4%
|

13) Have you ever had an office tryst?
|
Percentage
|
Yes
|
20%
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No
|
80%
|

14) Where have you had an office tryst?
|
Percentage
|
Conference room
|
22%
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boss's office
|
12%
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copy room
|
7%
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on your desk
|
24%
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other
|
24%
|
restroom
|
11%
|

15) Have you ever been caught in the midst of an office tryst?

16) Was it common knowledge that you were dating a coworker?
|
Percentage
|
I didn't tell anyone, but everyone knew anyway
|
15%
|
No one knew
|
33%
|
Only a few people knew
|
34%
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We were completely up front about it
|
18%
|
When asked to comment about romance in the workplace, here are what some of our respondents said:
- "Office romance is bound to happen. If you have people sharing common interests (work) + extended time together (40 hrs) + physical attraction = a perfect match."
- "Nothing wrong with office romance&it is actually a good thing, because I look forward to going to work to see my crush. I think that the consulting industry has the highest rate of office romance because you're constantly out on the road, and it can get pretty lonely."
- "Where else can you really see what somebody is like on a day-to-day basis? Usually office behavior/personality carries over to the private life. If someone is courteous, understanding, outgoing, etc&. they will be that way in a romantic relationship as well&.You typically spend 8-12 hours at work & it is a very good way to get to know someone."
- "When you work 80 hours per week, it is sometimes hard to meet anyone. You spend all your time in the office."

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